Dating: As a single parent

Dating as a single parent is not as easy as dating when unmarried. One might have lost their spouse, divorced or got separated. A person may not be ready to date again as they have just gone through the pain of separation. Also, the responsibility of children keeps holding the parent back. The single parent worries about not able to give the required time to their children or what would their children feel if they date someone, bothers a single parent, refraining from dating again. Sometimes, self-esteem is also low after going through a rough phase in life.

Dealing with Parents & In-Laws

Parents, in-laws, relatives may not easily accept that one has moved in a relationship and looking for a companion again. Managing society’s expectations and their opinions, dating becomes difficult for single parents. They become a topic of gossip. But society has to remember that the best mum or dad is a happy mum or dad! And if dating is making them happy, it should be a priority in their lives.

Dealing with Children

The next challenge in front of the parent is how to tell the children about the person you have started to date. Children may or may not easily accept the new person in their mom/dad’s life. They may withdraw themselves from you. Hence it is important to answer their questions openly. The security of the child is of utmost importance, the child needs to know nothing in his/her life is going to change and that he/she is still the most important person in your life. Your dating partner also needs to be their friend first of your children and not try to be their parent.

Managing the children, handling daily chores, going to the office, taking care of finances and dating would require good time management skills. If one is not able to manage everything leading to ignorance to kids, guilt will take rise in the mind of the parent.

If you’re a single parent and are capable of running a home, raising a family, and achieving what you prioritize. Never lower your standards when you can inspire someone to respect and live up to yours.

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